August 12, 2015

What To Do When Your Spiritual "Low Battery" Light is Flashing

Hello, sweet girl! I promise we'll get back to bite-sized studies and our fruit of the Spirit series soon, but I wanted to share this post with you now. That's partly because I'm a little obsessed with spiritual object lessons, and partly because I'm still working on patience...both on having this quality of the fruit of the Spirit and on the post about it!


So a couple weeks ago we were "experiencing technical difficulties" in our GALs (Girls And Ladies) Sunday School class.

Which is to say that the DVD we were trying to watch was playing, but it was jerky. It kept starting and stopping in maddening fashion. It was working, but not well, and not effectively.

I tracked down our church's resident tech expert, who took one look at our set-up and said, "Oh, I see what the problem is." As it turned out, the laptop we were using to play the DVD wasn't plugged into an outlet. The computer was running off its own battery, which had just enough power to function, but not enough to function properly. 

My older daughter, whom we'd recruited to be in our-house tech girl, said, "Oh, I saw that light flashing, but I didn't know what to do about it." Once Mr. Tech Guy plugged the laptop into the main outlet, the DVD ran like it was supposed to.

All during the rest of our class session, I thought about how this is the way we are in our walk with God. We try to run off our internal spiritual battery, and everything plays just fine for awhile. We're charged up by past worship, past Bible study, past fellowship, past connections with God. But before too long, we get jerky. We can function, but not well, and not effectively. 

And that's when we need to recharge by plugging back into The Power Source.

"I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing." (John 15:5 TNIV) 
Here are some steps I know I need to take when my spirit's low-battery light starts flashing.(And before it starts blinking would be even better.)

Pause. Before we could fix our hit-and-miss DVD, we had to stop the playback. Before you fill up your car's gas tank, you have to turn off the engine. I'm not suggesting that recharging your soul requires you to quit all activity and sit still for an hour. But you need to hit pause on some of your activity, if only for 10 minutes. You can be moving (I recharge while I'm out walking every morning), but your mind needs to be free to go to God. Got a run you need to get in or a lawnmowing gig with your name on it? Either would be a great time to power up your eternal battery.
"Cease striving and know that I am God. I will be exalted among the nations; I will be exalted in the earth." (Psalm 46:10 NAS)
Pray. If prayer is something you'd label one of your weaker spiritual disciplines, you're not alone. I felt the same way for a long time and still do to some extent. But like most things worth doing, prayer is something that gets better, stronger, and easier with practice. To borrow from Nike: just do it. Prayer is simply a conversation with a God Who is ready, willing, and extremely pleased to hear from you! You don't have to use certain words or a formula. But, if you're like me and your mind tends to wander when you pray, following this P.A.T.H. might help.
  • Praise ~ Tell God Who He is. (He knows; the affirmation and reminding are for us.) Say what He is--awesome, creative, loving, good, kind, compassionate, and on and on. Or say Who He is using His names. (You can find an alphabetical post-in-progress here to get you started.)
  • Admit ~ Confess your sins to God. (He knows; the admitting is for us.) Sin--anything that misses the mark of God's justly perfect standard--gets in between us and God. True confession and repentance (turning away from that sin) clear the path for communication and relationship.
  • Thank ~ Tell God what you're grateful for. Not only are thankful people happier people, but this step keeps your prayer from being just a list of requests and demands.
  • Help ~ Ask God for help, for yourself and for others.
The point of this P.A.T.H. is not (not!) to make prayer ritualistic. I'm not suggesting in any way that prayer has to follow a certain formula to "work." I use this P.A.T.H. to keep my mind and spirit on track. (And also because I am something of an organization freak.)
"You will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart." (Jeremiah 29:12, 13)
Plant. Read God's Word. Download a daily Scripture app. Choose verses you want to come back to again and again. Write them out. Speak them aloud (which, BTW, the enemy hates). Memorize them so they'll be buried in your mind and heart for future reference. Need a method for memorizing Scripture that has worked for at least one other person? Here's one to try.
"I have stored up Your Word in my heart, that I might not sin against You." (Psalm 119:11 ESV)
Praise. Worship God. Sing to Him. Listen to Christian music in the car or when you're getting ready in the morning. (Current favorites in our house: anything from Hawk Nelson or Lauren Daigle.) Go to church and lift your voice or your hands in His honor, even when you don't feel like it...especially when you don't feel like it.Tell somebody else what God is doing in your life.
"I have seen You in the sanctuary and beheld Your power and Your glory. Because Your love is better than life, my lips will glorify You. I will praise You as long as I live, and in Your name I will lift up my hands." (Psalm 63:2-4)
Participate. Sign up to work in the church nursery. Serve lunch at a homeless shelter. Commit to a Bible study--and follow through to the end. Go to church instead of sleeping in on Sunday morning. Find a spiritual mentor. Spend time with other believers.
"My friends, what good is it for one of you to say that you have faith if your actions do not prove it? Can that faith save you? So then, as the body without the spirit is dead, also faith without actions is dead." (James 2:14,26 GNT)
Pursue. Keep looking for God. Notice His handiwork in creation. Listen for His voice in the words of other Christians and in song lyrics and in the still, small voice nudging your spirit. Run away from anything that pulls you from God, and run toward the Source of every good thing.
"O God, You are my God, earnestly I seek You; my soul thirst for You, my body longs for you, in a dry and weary land where there is no water. Because You are my help, I sing in the shadow of Your wings. I stay close to you; Your right hand upholds me." (Psalm 63:1,7,8)
 How do you recharge spiritually? 
I'd love to have you share your step (it doesn't have to start with a "P"!).
Leave a comment, post on Facebook, or send an email!

July 31, 2015

What I Laid Down, What I Lifted Up


I sat on the cold tile of the bathroom floor and sobbed, "No, no, no..." 
And then God said, "I have a better 'yes' in mind."

I'm so grateful and honored that Kaylie Hodges is granting me the blessing of sharing this piece of my story of faith as part of her "Be Salty" God-brag blog project. You'll love Kaylie's sweet site and her "Adventures in Happily Ever After." 

In particular, I encourage you to check out Kaylie's posts "How Do You Read Your Bible?" and "How To Read Your Bible" for inspiration and guidance on really digging into the Word of God rather than just letting your eyes run over the print on the page. Which I know about from all-too-much personal experience.

Thank you, Kaylie, for letting me take part in your salty series. I'm so humbled and happy to be your guest today!

July 20, 2015

Who is the Holy Spirit and What Does He Have to Do with Fruit? (Part 3)

As Christians, we're supposed to be filled with the Spirit of God. But what, exactly, does that look like? Well, for one thing, it looks like peace.

What in the Word: Galatians 5:22-25

Hang-Onto-It Verse: "The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control." (Galatians 5:22-23a)


The Backstory: 

Camp out on the word peace for a little while. How do you describe peace? Then take a quick field trip to the lovely Reflect blog and pause for a few seconds on the expanded definition of shalowm you find there.

Which of these images best captures what you have in mind right now? 

                                

                       

Grab your Bible and go to Isaiah 9:6. What is the last name given to Jesus in this divine birth announcement?

What comes to mind when you read or hear the word "prince"?

My thoughts lean toward authority, rule, power. 

Head to the New Testament in your Bible and check out what Colossians 3:15 says about peace. 

This is a moment when we can just revel in the connection and completion of God's Word! Jesus is called the Prince of Peace. Princes are rulers. Colossians 3:15 counsels us to "let the peace of Christ rule" in our hearts. Aren't you just in awe of how everything fits together...how a thread started in the Old Testament gets woven into the New? Beautiful. Inspired (literally). I love this.

Peace reigns.
Peace rules.

The Main Event:
How do we get to this peace that reigns and rules?

One way is to follow the peace path. Click over to Philippians 4:6-7. Drink in these verses a couple times.

Now use these key words from that same passage to fill in the path below.

__________ ... __________ ... __________

... __________ ... __________ ... ________.

You can also look at this path as something of an equation: worry + prayer + petition + thanksgiving + requests = peace. 
  • Tell God what you're worried about. 
  • Present the facts to Him. (He knows, but He likes it when you communicate with Him.) 
  • Thank Him for what He's already done in the situation or for what He's blessed you with that gives you something to worry about in the first place. 
  • Ask Him to act. 
  • Then take a deep breath and confidently expect to feel His peace.

The Take-Away:
Worry is a window. It lets fear, despair, hopelessness, and anxiety into your mind and heart. (And, if you're like me, anger. I often act angry when I feel worried.)

But: peace is a protector. Peace stands guard at your mind and heart and denies entry to what worry would like to let in. Instead of fear, despair, hopelessness, anxiety, and anger, peace admits joy, hope, courage, encouragement, and wisdom. And because God's peace transcends (goes beyond, surpasses) understanding, you can experience this protection no matter what's going on in your life or in the world around you. 
You might understand that your friendship with your best friend is strained. You might understand that your family member's illness is serious and scary. You might understand that you don't know what to do about a big decision looming over you. But peace rises above understanding. Peace reigns and rules and exerts its authority over what you understand. 

Sometimes we think of peace as passive, but the peace that passes understanding actually brings strength. Peace captures energy stolen by worry and converts it into power to deal with that friendship, that illness, that decision.

The Truth in Action:
What are you worried about? (If you're like me, the issue isn't coming up with something; it's sorting just one thing out of a long list. This is not something I'm proud of.) Whatever is worrying you, move along the peace path with it. 

My 16-year-old daughter just got her license and is driving on her own. And because I am a normal mother, I am worried about her. So I pray: I begin a conversation with Abba and affirm my belief that He exists, that He cares about what I care about, and that He can and will do something about it! I petition Him and tell Him what He already knows about Lydia: how precious and loving and lovely she is. I thank Him for creating her and for giving her to her father, sister, and me. Then I tell Him I am concerned for her safety and ask Him to protect her and to help her to make wise decisions when she's driving. And then, even though I understand only too well (!) everything that could happen to my sweet girl when she's on the road, God's peace guards my heart and mind. (And then I pray some more. Because that's what we moms of young drivers do.)

When worry and fear try to get in the window, the protector turns them back. 

One other thing to remember: the most important part of The Truth in Action for every part of this Fruit of the Spirit (FOTS) series is going to be the same: ask the Holy Spirit (H.S.) to give you His fruit! Listen up, precious girl, you cannot come up with the FOTS on your own. You can't will yourself to be peaceful, especially on days when you feel like you're buried in worries about things that really matter! You can't just grit your teeth and make this FOTS thing happen. You have to ask the H.S. to fill you up with His power every day. 

The great news here is that God will always say "yes" when we ask for something He wants to give (on His own perfect schedule, of course). And we KNOW He wants to give us peace and all the rest of the parts of the FOTS. You can ask for a fresh fill-up of peace to get you through your day and feel confident God is going to be all over that request. So ask! 

Ask the H.S. to give you His supernatural power, because people can't literally see God's Spirit in you, but they can see peace. And remember, you're not doing this hard thing on your own. I'm not doing it on my own. That's why it's not called the Fruit of Elizabeth or the Fruit of (your name goes here). It's the Fruit of the Spirit

His Spirit.
His fruit. 
In you. 
Sweet.


"When your words came, I ate them; 
they were my joy and my heart's delight." (Jeremiah 15:16)



What steals your peace? What brings you peace?
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(Looking for Part 2 of this series? Find it here.)